National Coming Out Day 2023

 Long post ahead!


It's national coming out day today!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🌈

Time for my yearly Re-Coming out!

Hi My name is Wyntre Nyx Mann. My Pronouns are They/He/She in that preference order. I go by Wyn.

I'm Sapphic Bisexual, Nonbinary/Genderfluid/Trans, & Ambiamorous.

My name? I am legally changing it. I have been publicly out for 2+ years. Please start referring to me correctly and using my correct name. I have no problem cutting people out of my life who continue to deadname me. You've had enough time. I. am. Wyn.

I plan to come out every damn year all over again because guess what. Sexuality, gender, relationship dynamic. Its all a SPECTRUM. Its all fluid. It can change. Its ok if it changes.

You thought you were gay but you are bi? Its ok if you feel a need to come out a second time. You weren't faking. It wasn't a phase. You learned more about yourself and discovered more about your identity and that should be CELEBRATED not hidden. If it isn't safe to come out that's ok but no one should feel invalidated or afraid to come out or be themselves, especially within our own community.

So I will come out every single year, for those who can't.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
Disclaimers
I don't speak for the entire queer community. This is about ME and my own identity. Relationships don't define our identity, sexuality, gender, etc. Presentation doesn't define our gender. (That includes social presentation like pronouns). These things are all manifestation of identity. Not a definition or requirement. Identity is important and my knowing and owning mine is my process into loving myself for who I am. Labels matter to me, even if they don't to you.

"No one should have to live in the closet, but if you feel safer there I'll guard the door." ~OG Quote Author Unknown
----
If someone wants to comment photo descriptions Ill edit and paste them here




Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Family didn't come around.....In fact, it got worse.

Image
I posted the following wall of text to my facebook following an incident where my blood grandmother, whom is still following me and friends with me on facebook and has yet to block me despite hanging up on and disowning me, reshared a political post in favor of a candidate who would see much anti trans legislature passed. 
Read more

What a Shitty Situation

Image
  Gonna tattle tell on myself just so I can praise the fuck out of  C atherine, my fiance.  ------------------ Required Context: I have had SEVERE incontinence since July of 2023 due to a miscarriage we had. I spent months in adult diapers and living on puppy pads. Now I'm recovered enough to live day to day just using menstrual pads. But I still suffer with it. More required Context: Cat and I sleep....ahem. Natural. Birthday suit. You get the gist. (All you woo-y moms, don't come for us, Elena has her own bedroom we aren't dumb) ------------------ So. I wake up at 5am with a full bladder. And remember I use a CPAP for sleep apnea. So it's either A) hold it and sleep. B) take off the mask and go to the restroom or C) be a lazy sleep zombie and disconnect the CPAP hose and groan your way to the restroom looking like bane and Darth vaders love child. Obviously I picked C. I do my business and clean myself after peeing only to realize.....there is dried...ahem....feces on...
Read more